Coming to talk about one's private and intimate life requires particular courage because it is difficult. Your comfort is important at all times. In general, individuals and couples want reassurance:
Am I normal? Is what I want normal? How often do others have sex? I want my partner to desire me too – what's wrong?
Other concerns include:
- desire difference
- dificulty with intimacy and closeness
- too little/too much sex
- infidelity
- sexual fantasies
- erection problems
- effects of surgery
- effects of medication
- impact of pornography use
- vaginal pain on intercourse
- ejaculation problems
- effects of cancer on sex
- lesbian/gay/bi/ hetero sexual matters